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Many women feel deeply threatened...

There is something faintly ridiculous about their complaints, and I fully understand why Twitter is full of people laughing at them. But perhaps instead of laughing at these men or maybe as well as… we should address the true reasons that these men are struggling to find someone to love.

They do like them.

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Lots of women, for instance, like sex. They might even make the first move. Women get to choose what they wear, what they drink, where they go and what they do.

I can entirely understand how a man who had been out of the dating game for decades might be shocked by how the liberation of women has changed their behaviours. We often go to public houses unaccompanied these days, and some young ladies are even venturing outside without their hats and gloves. Which is exactly why some men get defensive on a date.

Being afraid that someone you quite like will knock you back can lead to problems.

Difficult as it is, try to open up and relax. A woman is not going to reject you for fun or for her own sick gratification. Women are not witches. Chalk it up to experience and move on.

No one wants to hear this, but here it is. Some people have unrealistic expectations. Men often accuse women of this fault, but let he who is without sin cast the first stone and all that.

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