Are you dating after divorce and confused about the mixed signals men send? I feel so confused. The other evening I got angry because he neglected to respond to a message I sent asking when he could help me with something HE suggested he wanted to help me with.
Basically I told him I was done. We were physically closer, kissing, cuddling, but I felt that I was the aggressor so I backed off. I realize a slow start to a relationship is more likely to result in a true connection, but I felt we were going backwards.
I think you are right about being his confidant and not a romantic interest. Sometimes dating after divorce is hard. When you feel frustrated and confused like this, it happens. My question is what do you see in him and why do you want him back?
When a man confides in a woman, that demonstrates a level of trust. No wonder you feel used. This man benefits tremendously from your friendship and emotional support. Sometimes women offer emotional support in the hopes of getting love in return.
You might want to read this other dating after divorce post for more details. Since you 50 year old dating mixed signals cut him off, my dating after divorce advice is to leave things be.
After four years of being single, can that really be what you are seeking? I sure hope not. Please move on, heal, and then get back out there to find a man who shows romantic interest. Go out on dates.
Let men pursue you, call, text and ask you out. When a man initiates, he gets more invested and you are less likely to end up with a man 50 year old dating mixed signals takes advantage of your good nature.
There are much better men out there who want a loving relationship with a woman like you.